Insanity

It has been said that insanity is doing the same thing but expecting different results. You must change your spending habits when you file bankruptcy or if you attempting to change your overall financial habits. If you keep spending more than you make then your financial future will never change. Another saying is: Denial is not just a river in Egypt. You must face the reality that change must occur if you are on the verge of filing bankruptcy.

It is true that some people are filing bankruptcy due to medical conditions, loss of job or some other circumstance that is truly out of their control. However the majority of people are in bankruptcy because they spent more money than they make. They are led into the false belief that if they get 60, 90 or 365 days of no interest that they can save up for that debt and pay it off before the end of the no interest period. Unfortunately, more often than not this does not happen. Another common circumstance is that people live on their overtime budget as opposed to a 40 hour work week. When the overtime stops then the snow ball of debt begins to grow. It continues to grow until the snow ball rolls right of the top of you and crushes you to death.

We have become a society of instant gratification. This instant gratification pattern created by the media and credit industry has led us into the current state of poor economic outlook. Spending and saving are just like anything else in our lives. These are behaviors that become habitual. Since behavior is a human trait we have the free will to change or modify our behavior. This can be done but it is going to take hard work and perseverance.

This first step is to take a harsh look at your current economic outlook. This is something you can do yourself. You take your monthly income and place it in one column and then list your expenses in the second column. However, break out the expenses into two groups. The first expenses are those for necessities and the second are for those expenses that are non-essential.

Necessities are for rent/mortgage, electric, gas, water, trash, food, clothing, laundry outside the house, gasoline for auto, oil, tires, auto maintenance, charity, insurance (rent, house, auto, health direct pay, life), car payment, cellular, real property tax, personal property tax, work related expenses (not food unless you are a firefighter or other similar work schedules), children expenses related to school, daycare, cigarettes, and medical/dental. Total those expenses up and then work on the other expenses. These are the expenses that are optional things such as: drinks/food at the gas station, Starbucks coffee, dvd rentals/purchases, clothes you do not need, trips that are placed on credit, presents at Christmas or birthdays that you do not pay cash for, eating out instead of taking a meal with you to work, video games, drinking/partying spending, outrageous cable bill, etc...

You take the necessity expenses and deduct this amount from your net (take home pay) monthly income. Then take the other expenses and total them. Take this total from the remaining amount left over from the net income - the necessity expenses. How much money do you have left over each month? If the amount is zero it is time for a reality check.

If you have money left over then these funds should be placed into 401(k) or other savings plan. However, you should be placing the savings category into the necessity category. Savings are a necessity and must be a priority for you to change your behavior. This is the hardest habit of our spending pattern to change. However, if you can start and keep a savings fund then I feel confident that you can change your overall spending.

A great place to start is to read this savings article/ Every journey begins with the first step. It is up to you whether or not you are going to takes this first step to change your spending behavior for the better.